Thanks LL, I know I am better, but not sure if h does..He did not bring his laundry over Sunday, as he has always done..I immediately thought he's tired of being around me for a couple hours..or he can't bear to come to his home anymore..I talked to him today and he said that he took it to laundramat..told me he can't always bring it here to do it..I said yes you can anytime.Oh well..had a nice talk with SIL tonight..she can't figure out what he wants..she did say that one time when he talked to her he mentioned all the things he felt like he was missing..going out with friends..etc..but he is not a party goer.. So..I just tell myself to hang in there..give him time..My d even said to me "you don't have to see or talk to him everyday".true and I don't but a part of me want to keep in contact so he won't forget me..he did call and ask if I wanted to go to his Christmas party Sat..I said do you want me to go with you.. he said he guessed so.So is that a No not really but since I already mentioned it I guess I will or is that a small step that he would not say anything more if he did not want me to go??So hard to know Sue
