Greetings Aud,
That was a good explanation on how you see what Limbo is. My explanation after thinking about it is "Smelling the pie in the kitchen through the window..knowing its there and experiencing some of it but not yet experiencing a piece of it." ..that came out a little worse than I thought BAD metaphor, insert favorite pastry or dish and put in slice where needed...sorry
I like your positives list and think I will try that myself. I also think Mama is right on the latching on to the things that are out of our control...control ourselves and the day will follow...so just again dropping by..peace