Remember that sentence anytime you feel compelled to ask him about R/M....
I still believe that he told you things were over for good just to get you off of his back....I know my H said I could beat a dead horse with my constant questioning/inquiring/explaining in my need to be understood....
Don't remind him about Vegas....he is a big boy...so what if he forgets....do you honestly think at this point that he is really ready to be with you on a pleasure trip???....Think about it...he just got through telling you it was over....if you ask him about the Vegas trip then you are not respecting his feelings....
How do you change his feelings???...YOU DON'T....YOU CHANGE yourself...and then maybe he will feel attracted to you once again...you must loose the drama...the inquisitions....the constant need to be right....the need to be heard....the need to clarify....You have to let him be a MAN...to take the lead...I will bet the OW allows him to do that...you need to become BETTER then the OW in HIS EYES!!!....we all know we are better...but we really need to better ourselves....
And remember...you are NOT changing for HIM....YOU ARE changing for YOU....YOU want to be this new great person....because if you do it for any other reason...well lets just say you will be back here again needing support because H left....and no one wants to do this again and again!
So....get a positive attitude on, dress pretty, think nice thoughts, get a life, and have a great week!!!
