Went to movie last night with h and some friends..went bac to their house for pie(h had said that our friend had asked him if he liked pecan pie and he said he did, but that I did not, I did not realize until we got there that he had told them my favorite kind and that is what they had gotten)I know it sounds silly but that was so nice of my h to think of me..he could have told them an kind of pie that he likes..but he thought of me(something he has not done for a long time)I should have told him later how nice that was of him..but I did not think to..another thing we have never been very good at doing for each other. Wish I knew if he was waiting for the first talk, move from me..should I ask?? I do so well with patience, but what if we are both wasting precious time waiting for the other to show some signs of wanting to repair this...silence can be good, but at the same time devastating...I think his Christmas party is coming up this next weekend, he asked me a few weeks about going..will wait and see if he mentions it..knowing him he will about Thurs..and i might not be able to contain myself!!! Patience... Good night Sue
