J, you are right about God forgiving you and you need to forgive yourself. Hanging on to it will only invalidate the request to ask God to forgive you because that is what He commands. You will not forget the transgression, which is good so you can avoid future tempations but it keeps you in a place where you know that it is harmful and not worth a moment of pleasure. Do not think of yourself as bad, just the action. You are a beautiful child of God, period!


Me:56, W:51
D:26,S:24,S:22
Married:18
Bomb 9/27/06
Separated 11/27/06
Divorced 10/6/08
Leaving it up to God