Newcomers is good and you will meet a bunch of good people there. And it is a good place to find your feet. Start posting here too.
If your wife in in MLC, then you should be here, we are heh as Ian pointed out a bit more brutal, but that doesn't make the advice any less true. And MLC is a beast unto its own.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK