hi sue,
think we have something in common with the female friend thing, only diff being it was hidden from me.

I wouldn't worry much about her though... h is seeing what she is all about...fairweather friend she is. he was there for her when she was dealing with her h issues and now that he is dealing with things she's off with her man.

you are a better woman sue, h knows it and you should know it too!!

just keep the focus on you and let h figure it out himself.

LL