Now Surviving Separation

[Heartbroken]

I think the crux of the whole matter is that they hold all the cards and they do not want to make a decision. My H is a people pleaser and he does not want to hurt me or her so he is paralyzed in making a decision. H is in a world of hurt and I just wish he would go and talk to a professional. He always has been one that NEVER asks for help - but I think he cannot fix this on his own... H is stubborn and it may take him some time to admit he needs outside help (if he ever admits it at all)....