Pete, this is pretty overwhelming to read about... I can't imagine what it must be like to be living it.

Many of us (well, anyway *I*) have done really embarrassing things, especially in the sexual department, and I commend you for being brave enough to toss your sitch out on this board.

I don't have any advice at the moment, just wanted to welcome you and acknowledge your post. This is indeed a crucible time.



A bitter lesson here... \:\( (Thank God it wasn't HIV.)