Went shopping to mall as a family..h had called and said he supposed I could come along if I left he and d to go on their own..I asked d if they were buying gift from her to me or h to me. She said he wanted to get me a gift..is this a small step or a giant one?? I think this time away has been giving him what he seems to need. It is funny though how people talk. Someone saw him at lunch with our pastor, and asked a mutual friend if he was dating her. I guess I never realized until now what people really do assume.Would I think the same thing if I saw a recentl seperated person out with the opossite sex..maybe..it just bothers me what people say when they don't know the whole truth..This all has been an eye opener in many ways.

Hope everyone is doing ok with the holiday almost here.I think for the first time in my life I can see that the presents and all the glitz that we caught up in is truly not hte meaning of Christmas, and that there are so many things to be thankful for if we just look.
Sue