Hi, was talking with daughter today, and she told me her Dad called her and asked she wanted to go shopping for something for me for Christmas!!This is a man that did not give me a card for our anniv. and birthday(both in Sept) I told her maybe he does still want me around. I told her I did not know for sure what he wants right now, she said "mom, he wants and needs space..it's not all going to get fixed in a month"! My little girl(20yrs old) is sounding so mature and grown up. We did get a Christmas card from a relative that is "assuming" things that she has seen and heard, and she addressed it to just me and kids..I was mad, as were my kids... I know he moved out, but s and d both said he's still a part of our family..of course my sister doesn't think that should bother me, but it does. my mil addressed it to both of us.Sister said of course his mother would..yeah well his family is not so judgmental. No one understands that we don't hate each other, it is not the "usual" sitch of fighting and screaming..but we are seperated.. and I have to not let all these little things make me go into denial that it might not work out..But I am feeling pretty good right now. Bye Sue
