Hi, h stopped by last night after worka nd asked if I wanted to go to Star trek movie..I went because I wanted to, but I don't like those kinds of movies..while we were sitting there waiting for it to start, I asked h if his bank is having a Christmas party(he has not said anything and I know he has every right to go without me)he said it was in January and did I want to go, he then added with a smile, "that ought to confuse the h*** out of some of them" because some gossips are spreading it all around that he left me, and that bothers him. I told him that is pretty common.I know I should not have said this but I did, I said "Is that the only reason you want me to go with you"?He smiled his old smile and said"no". Also asked me to go to Church staff party next Sunday and our video club party on Sat. p.m. Should I be happy that we are doing all these things together???We have been doing them all along. It is not fixing anything that needs to be fixed.We are not spending time alone to reaquint with each other. But I will enjoy the time out together. Sue
