Hmmmm. I wonder how much this is related to you confronting him about his addiction via the television show. You *both* knew exactly what rewinding to the beginning of the show was about. And, if an addict isn't ready to address his problem, I believe the standard behavior is to deny, attack, and run... Lol, I think that is pretty much the standard behavior by anyone confronted by something they know is true to some degree, but don't want to admit it is true.

Anyway, criminy criminy criminy. Do you think he is for real? If so, I wonder if you should contact a L and/or the police in case he tries to throw you out. As far as I know, it is your home, he cannot forcibly evict you and his children. And, seriously, SO sounds truly pretty crazy. Not crazy-because-he-wants-different-things-than-you-want-and-you-don't-understand-how-that-is-possible-and-deny-that-those-different-things-could-be-good-for-him, which is the way the term "crazy" is usually applied here. But, crazy-as-in-suffering-from-true-psychological-impairment-that-makes-him-dangerous-to-himself-and-others. Is there anyway to get him to go back into intensive therapy?


Best,
Oldtimer