Laura!!!
OMG, so good to see you back!!! I can't get over how similar our sitches are...our ages, similar friendships with our H's, the one time sex thing and our H's reactions to that, the confusion/guilt, the lack of money on H's end to proceed with D, the OG sitch, the myspace crap and now the pulling away.

Well, I still have contact with H, but he definately pulling away. He is very depressed and said he feels like a loser, he said that everything is so overwhelming and can't talk to anyone about it because it would be a conflict of interest...and when I didn't reply to that he said, it wasn't what I thought, it's just a culmination of things...whatever that means.

I think what you are doing is perfect! But, I didn't hear much about how you are feeling or what YOU have been up to lately?!?!?!