Now Surviving Separation

[Heartbroken]

Thanks! I feel better today already - I know each day I will get stronger and as I told him last night: "I have given you your space, your freedom in your own apt ---I just cannot help you decide what to do about Ow this is up to you and only you..."

H talked yesterday like he wanted to talk about his 'issues w/Ow' with me like we have talked about any other issues in our 16 yrs together. We have always been a team from building our home to raising two wonderful kids and now for the first time I think he is realizing we are not a team on this new front and he really has to go it alone...


H is on the downward spiral and thank God, I am out of that whole mess. I only hope the man I married survives this all in the end...

I know I can survive and get beyond him - it's just not really what I want at this point. So I will keep my PMA and plod along, posting/venting here and try to help others in the same boat. I am addicted to this new 'family'...