Thanks for stopping by. I know in my heart that I have to wait for him to want to talk, but when he is around just me, he seems to change be the sad, quiet person he has been the past 6 months. We were out at church and he is happy and talks and laughs, then he came here to do laundry and he's quiet, answers my questions with one word statements. I feel like I should be around, but he watches tv and I don't really want to sit and watch the shows he watches. I feel sad when he comes over, cause I get the feeling it is just to do laundry. He is not ready to want to be with me. Things can turn around, I have read so many positives here, but when it is right in front of you, it gets so easy to give up hope that things will change.If we can't find anything to say to each other how does the spell get broken?? I am justv enting, I know no one really has the answers, time...patience.. I'll try!
Sue.