Now Surviving Separation

[Heartbroken]

Well my first thread finally locked up...does not let me reply I guess that a sign I am officially in the 'post too much club'!

I will try to add my old thread to my signature - any help out there from you 'pros'!!

I am changing my subject to from help us get over the Ow - I am now in surving separation and feel I am moving forward on ME!

[Heartbroken]

Still working on the linking of my first thread - help!

[~Sol]

Still working on the linking of my first thread - help!

Just close the gap inside the brackets and you should be fine. There should be no spaces inside the brackets.

[ url=http://tinyurl.com/3c2oo7 ]First Thread [ /url ]
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here...................................here..............here..here.

[Heartbroken]

Yes I think it is fixed and WOW now I actually have a First Thread Link (boy I hope I do not ever catch up to GrassHooper - in the Separation group!!)

[~Sol]

Great!

[Heartbroken]

Well today I woke up rather numb - sort of melancholy. Need to get back the PMA...

H sent a nice email and we will talk at lunchtime about this weeks schedules with the kids.

Friday eve I have 7-10 friends coming for girls night, some pina coldas or other cocktails and a movie! I just do not want to be alone...This will force me to get the house whipped into shape this week!

[lovelyolive]

You're awesome! I need to be more like you

[Heartbroken]

This is too funny - I just posted on your newest thread! Wow it's such a small world!!

I really admire you and your strength!!

[theoden]

Heartbroken,

YOu are doing great.

--Theoden

[Heartbroken]

Thanks! I feel better today already - I know each day I will get stronger and as I told him last night: "I have given you your space, your freedom in your own apt ---I just cannot help you decide what to do about Ow this is up to you and only you..."

H talked yesterday like he wanted to talk about his 'issues w/Ow' with me like we have talked about any other issues in our 16 yrs together. We have always been a team from building our home to raising two wonderful kids and now for the first time I think he is realizing we are not a team on this new front and he really has to go it alone...


H is on the downward spiral and thank God, I am out of that whole mess. I only hope the man I married survives this all in the end...

I know I can survive and get beyond him - it's just not really what I want at this point. So I will keep my PMA and plod along, posting/venting here and try to help others in the same boat. I am addicted to this new 'family'...