I do try to find a postive in every negative sitch. Apart from H, it's usually commuting that most tries my patience. My train was delayed this morning and packed out so I had to stand for 40 minutes (in high heels) crammed in with other commuters. I was starting to get really annoyed, so I put some cheesy rock tunes on my ipod and instantly felt much better.
You cannot teach a man anything; you can only help him discover it in himself. Galileo Galilei