Dear JBF,

been reading your thread, like many of us you're stuck with an MLC'er that is only thinking of themselves....I'm sorry.
I to think that you are being a great dad to your little girl !! Well done, for loving her so much and for getting your life on track, those are huge steps and you're taking them ! You're GAL too. Try to detach more from your wife, it's too early IMHO to think that she will start seeing sense...this takes a while and we have to be patient. In the meantime enjoy your time with your daughter, you have been given this, it's a gift, a great oportunity to bond with her !
You're wife will wake up one day and see what a wonderful man she left........it's up to you to see if at that point you're still prepared to let her into your life again.

It's hard, it has taken me SO LONG to learn how to detach, and I often still struggle with it. But I've come to a point where I feel that if I don't let go and let God, that I will go under again, and THAT is not an option....I have 3 wonderful kids that are counting on me being there and never asked for any of this !!!

Take care, and well done with everything so far !!


Love Cinders xxx

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