Amen to that. This OM was "going through a bad D" so being friendly invited him over several times to come over my house for Sunday dinner and listen and whine about it. The four of us went out once and I think his xw saw something between them but at the time I was too trusting and didn't see it. That may be the single most important part of my decision is to not let OM get involved with my life or my children's, no "Uncle OM" here even if I have to move acroos the country to prevent the kids from being influenced by him. They can't stand him anyway. It's a dang shame. Thanks for posting, RJ
