What happened in Hawaii that changed your situation? You're in fifth gear again...slow down, let your husband alone for a while...no more relationship talks anymore. You still are talking him to death, hon. Please back away, keep it all business and do not contact him for any reason, whatsoever. You're going to have to start all over again. How was Kona? I'm really, really sorry that this has taken a bad turn, but in my opinion, you need to be very obscure right now, as much as possible. Please, please, please...no more questions to him about anything relating to the marriage...I cannot stress that anymore to you...you are pushing him away.
It seemed like you had a handle on this before the trip, but now it seems like you are being "the old way" again. Chin up, you can still save this marriage...
