Any other guy than the one that stabbed me in the back acting to be my friend to get close to my wife.
I haven't posted to you before but boy can I relate to that. My H's OW is a former friend of ours. She and her now XH and H and I went out to dinner with them and another couple alot. In fact, two weeks before she slept with my H, she and I along with the other friend went to a concert together. She is not someone I ever want involved with my children or that I want involved in my life in any way, shape, or form. But getting rid of her has to be my H's choice. I can't control his decisions, I can only control my own.
Everything happens for a reason, maybe Dad needs to find that it isn't better out there, he needs to realize how good he had it here. Maybe he will find God and that is the most important thing when he finds Him he will know he is supposed to come home.
