Yes, self centered is an understatement. I think I remember you saying something about maybe being and doing everything for your wife allowed her to become so self centered. I am starting to see the same thing. As I reflect back, for many different reasons, the last 18 years has been a slow spiral towards "what ever makes YOU happy." The sad part was I was OK with it because I THOUGHT it did make her happy.
Imagine my surprise when I found out it is not what she wanted, Oh wait, you don't have to imagine it! So I guess my question is, Why not say something? Why not just say, "I am really not happy with how things are and where my life is at." Or "I love you, but it feels like things are out of controll, and we need to do something different." Or, "It seems like I am developing feelings for this other person, and it scares the sh!t out of me, we need to talk about this."
Is it denile? Or maybe they think they have more self-controll then they do, what, what, what, what, why, why, why, why?
I guess in the end, only they know.
81388 Me 43, waw 44, 3 kids(D15,D12,S6)Married 19yr, together 27yr. Bomb 11/27/06, Separated 3/1/07 Divorce filed 4/18/07,
"Because it is in giving that we receive; In forgiving that we obtain forgiveness; In dying that we rise to eternal life" St. Francis
