I know my feeling were real and always have been. It's just hard not having doubts about how my H claimed to have felt about me before he said those dreaded words "I'm not in love with you anymore!" If someone once loved you as much as my H said he did-where does that love go? This is where my doubts come creeping in... My gut tells me H's feelings were real too, but he has been gone 2 years and no signs that he is even close to waking up to those feelings.