He cannot get over the OW help us...

[theoden]

Only advice...

Don't pressure him, the OW is playing that role now.

You decide how much time you want with him...

Remember--- always a little less than he wants.

--Theoden

[Heartbroken]

I was feeling scared for H and called him. I said I cannot talk about the Ow and help him there - I said I have tried to be as supportive as I can and this is all I can give...

H broke down - just crying and he says its not me and he knows how much I am doing/trying... He agreed that we should not rush to file - it took us a long time to get here and that it may take awhile to figure it out too. I said if we go down the D road what is the diff in 6 vs 8 vs 12 mos....he agreed. H told me he hopes I know he is really thinking of everything - and I said yes I think your rose colored glasses have come off (slightly) and that he is trying really hard to figures this out...

H said he's was happy today at lunch and the movie - offered this up on his own.

I just need patience patience patience...

Ow will hang herself - just give it time.... And time is all I have right now! Wow this coaster ride just went up a very very small hill! PMA!!!!!

[imLIN]

That ended nicely...now leave him alone and hope OW pesters the HELL out him...she just might drive this rollercoaster home!!!

[Heartbroken]

I am done with H for tonight and until H calls next! I promise! The kids will call tonight to say their good nites and ILY's. PMA!