Life of Job

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Wife moved out. Came by today and moved alot of stuff out. Furniture, pictures(none of me), dishes, etc. I asked yesterday if she wanted the kids today, and she said oh yes, I want to see them, I told her just call after church, havn't heard a word all day.

I have been pulling out old pictures and putting them up in the place of all the old ones she took with her. Still has alot of stuff here, tempted to just start tossing stuff out. Tell her I am sorry but I thought she had moved out, so the stuff still here must not be important.

I have done pretty well, the kids were hard hit, but we just finished a family meeting, talked about what has changed, and what hasn't(mom and dad still love them, this is not about anything they have or havn't done, we will be OK,etc.)

D11 helped hang pictures, and commented on how much she liked some of them, and why hadn't we hung them before? They have sctivities at church tonight then home for homework,baths, and getting ready for the next day.

Have not called W, although she showed up before we left for church, was talking about taking this that and the other thing, I just told her that the "stuff" was pretty meaningless to me, so she should just take what made her happy because that was the purpose of all this, said it nice though.