Thank you again for that wonderful inspiring post.
"MLC's beliefs are their reality-- it is what they believe to be true for them." When a MLCer tells the LBS that there is no love left there anymore- it is gone. (THis is what my H tells me and his family) Are you saying that right now this is TRULY how they feels and that they BELIEVE this to be true, but in reality they have just buried these feelings for the LBS? How can I be sure it really isn't GONE for good?
I really want to believe that my H does still love me, but b/c of his MLC he just doesn't know it right now. If my H doesn't love me anymore, maybe he never will again. Sometimes people do fall out of love, right?
I just don't want to be in denial anymore. How do I know that my H's feelings of love will ever return for me. Especially when he REALLY isn't feeling any love me for right now b/c it is his REALITY?
Can you help me out on this? I want to believe that the love my H and I felt for one another was REAL and that it isn't gone forever. I know you can't tell me how my H is feeling , but since you have been there yourself- did you believe with all your heart when you were in MLC that you DIDN"T love or WANT your wife anymore? When you came out of your crisis did you realize you were wrong about how you felt and actually did love her?
