MJ, Last night was a little like that. I took a bath while H lit candles and incense. I put on something sensual for me and H complimented me---remember, he used to be mean and say things like " I don't care what you wear." He actually initiated oral on me ( again, remember he used to project the attitude that I/it was repulsive). Gosh, he hated me. Deep sigh. Anyway, we still have a ways to go, but he is trying.
