This fish won't take the bait II

[Kim07]

Mopsey,

I've been reading your posts,,it all sounds too familiar,,but you are doing great!! I do agree w/the others,,just hold your ground, the "highroaders" usually end up winning and as Michele has stated in DBing books, your children will see later that you tried to the best of your ability (sounds like D is trying as well-not intentionally) while keeping your kindness, to work this out! That your children will see that this is the best way to relate & problem-solve w/others, as you have done this w/sincerety & niceness,,,thats' priceless!

I wanted to know if your D was still having problems w/swimming or maybe it was w/friend AT swimming? I am in business for myself, have been a swimming instructor for 14yrs and have some ideas if you want to hear, otherwise if its' all resolved then I hope she stays in lessons, its' a good distraction for her, is she in counseling as well, might be good?! I'm glad your S is seeing a "C", I have one S out of 4 who is 19yrs and still cannot get thru this, its' harder now to get him into counseling! Let me know if anything I can do to help & good luck!