I take 5mg of celexa and I've found it helps tremedously. I didn't think I needed it, but once I tried it I realized how much better I was able to deal with the divorce. It was like NOTHING could upset me!!! Amazing stuff.
I haven't heard of Gingo Biloba helping with drive (isn't it more for memory?). One herb which I've read is good for female sex drive is Damiana. Although I don't know how effective it is, or anything else about it.
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