Mrs...I get what you are saying...I can clearly see where your father crossed the line of father to daughter....
I don't think it is appropriate to tease a young girl about her becoming a woman...it isn't appropriate from anyone of the opposite sex....peer or adult...it is not appropriate for a mother to tease a girl about that or her son about his becomming a man....that is just NOT RIGHT...
I might have a little more sensitivity to this because my H and his siblings were victims of severe sexual abuse...when his father was around in his old age I was extremely cautious about how he interacted with my little girls....I NEVER let him have him on his lap....it is sad but he was not the only abuser in that family...and now my H is for the first time dealing with the horrors of his young life....
