Do whatever it takes, Fran. He sounds like a heart attack or stroke waiting to happen. Has he had his cholesterol and B/P checked recently? He really needs to get checked out ASAP.
I understand your reluctance to bring it up based on his previous response. I have encountered that a bit myself with H. He sees the doc regularly and has his levels monitored. Now I'm trying to get him to see an endocrinologist about his thyroid. Anyone want to jump in here?