From a survivor....yes, it is worth it...but you may not realize that until a year or so after the return...the work when they get back is immense and sometimes I found myself missing my "quiet single time"....
I really feel this time is needed apart...if we had gotten back together too soon I would not have been ready for my part of the deal to work things out....so look at this time as a positive time for you to be able to become who YOU NEED to be...and hopefully your S's will come back as the PERSON YOU WANT THEM to be....
