Fighting for your marriage vs. Standing for your marriage.

I prefer to think of this so called journey as standing for my marriage because we attempt to take the focus off of spouse and pray, etc.

Also, my H, the MLCer will be the first one to say there are no problems in our marriage and when asked why he had to go out and get a girlfriend (his probation officer probed him on this)he says he really does not know. And then she kept probing and asked him why he still has a girlfriend if there is nothing wrong at home and once again, he does not know.

I believe they do not know why they do the things they do.

I think if we say we are fighting for our marriages, we attempt to go right out and do things we know will backfire on us.

Standing is very different.

Just my .02 worth for the day.

Last edited by steelersfan; 03/03/07 03:28 PM.
The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19