PS, The sex talks do become easier. I remember in the beginning it was so very awkward, but eventually you just get the words out and the next time it's not as difficult. The hard part is figuring out what it is you need in the interactions and coming to some sort of compromise.
Last night was not a scheduled night, so naturally H really wants to have sex. There is this oppositional quaility about him. It was hard to know if I should give in so as not to be a stickler to the schedule, or hold off, tease and play, and make up for it tonight. I just wish we could truly agree on something!
