I agree, they do hurt, thats why the A is out in the open. I know she is confused but, you're right a choice has to be made. I don't think I want to give her to much more time. I say month month and a half tops. I can not let her have the both of us, and thats what she has. The passion and lust of a new R, and the goodhearted, caring, stable father in me. Thats not a life. Doing this all day and fighting for whats right is not a life for anyone. But the end result, if it gets reconciled, is worth it.
M-31 W-25 S-1 1/2 bomb dropped 9-01-06,and repeating over and over "I, not events, have the power to make me happy or unhappy today. I can choose which it shall be." Groucho Marx.
