He cannot get over the OW help us...

[Heartbroken]

At this point I think he trying to NOT think about it - hard to do when you are in a 1 BR apt with two fighting kids...

I think he cannot believe how out of control all of this has gotten and he needs to make a choice and he cannot do it. I know H is hurting too - maybe a diff hurt than me but I know he is still hurting...