I am in a similar sitch with 3 kids under 5 and married for 13 yrs. I'm in my mid 30's and got complications from delivering my 3rd child. I went thru a really rough time after DD turned 1 yrs old and needed pelvic floor physical therapy etc... I discovered my H at least had EA (if not PA) that dated back to this past yr when I was going thru hell. He announced he wanted a D in Nov. 26. Totally blindsided. Discovered his s**t in Jan 2007 and he can be so mean and hateful to me. He never gave me any answers and expect me to just go with the flow with the D. I don't know how he could leave me like that after I just had his 3rd child and now have a life long condition from the delivery. I really hate him for it.
Me: 36 WAH: 35 S1: 5, S2: 3, D: 2 Married 13 yrs Bomb dropped Nov. '06 H filed D papers Feb. 1, '07 H nows says OW is GF since April '07
