Sorry for you and your pup. Murmurs often times are not so bad ... I even have one! \:\) Keep us posted!

As for being off the boards. I sooo understand. It can be easy to get sucked into giving a play by play of every interaction with Spouse and get caught in the frustration. Easy that way to to feel "at the mercy" of the WAS and their chaos.

Pulling back and focusing back on yourself if a great idea!

Hugs,

Brava

Me: 36
He: 34
no kids
Married: 2000
He left: July 05