Paul, I believe my H is in denial about the impact his past has had on him. His family has a tendency to not deal with the issues at hand.
Right after the bomb I had asked my H why he felt like he couldn't open up to me and tell me what was bothering him. His response was "because I don't want to bring you down with my sh*t". A little bit later in the conversation he then says "what makes you think that there is anything wrong with me?" So frustrating. Our MC had told him that she thought he needed IC but he said he wasn't ready to deal with him problems. I hope one day he will.
Thank you for your insight. I love to read your posts!
