Sarah, no, that is one thing my H never did do that I read an awful lot here, he didn't blame me, he kept saying it wasn't all my fault. I thought it was my fault more than he did. He did tell me that that he didn't make himself fall out of love. Michele would say not to get defensive if your H is blaming you though. Just try and let it roll off your back. That would have been a 180 for me, the old me would get all bent and defensive. I did feel howver that my H figured he'd be instantly happy if he was rid of me though. Lisa
