I have found a great website http://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com if you go down to bottom of the page and read the archives, it has a lot of what is in the book. My H didnt think all this would affect the kids, but it does. He kept telling me that I was the one making them upset and they would soon get over it. Well it has been 7 months and they still dont want to go to his house with her there. They have even told him that they will nevr like her. He just says I have been corrupting them. Since New Years he has not pressured them to go to his house. See his mom is against the kids being around her and they have to stay at her house. Ha!Ha!
