sarah, thanks for 'reviving' this thread. Hopefully more will see it and think about showing their spouses the love and respect that maybe they weren't before, I know I am guilty of that. I am a woman so I will speak as one and say that men need to feel respected and appreciated and loved. If you think that is hogwash then things will not go well. My H responds to kind words and affection. I can't beileve how much time I wasted, literally years. Lisa
