Sarah, the way I didn't pursue was I didn't follow him around (Michele says not to do that), no 20 questions, no badgering for us to go stuff together, if he wanted me with him he'd ask me. I became nicer because I had turned into a royal bitch and certainly NOT the woman he thought he married. That is what I mean by showing the love you feel, I always loved him and thought I had it made. I didn't. I killed the love he felt for me. I withheld affection and love from him. never again. I was bored, just like you. It took this wake up call last Feb for me to realize what I had and almost lost. I also know what you mean about not saying what you really feel because you "know" the response you'll get. I do the same thing, and sometimes I say what's on my mind and the response I get isn't the one I expected at all. The WAS's change too. They have to or it just wouldn't work out I don't think. It wasn't only you and I who messed up our M's, they had a part in it too. Take care, Lisa
