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Unfortunately, I think what love is about is perceptions; if we offer a smile to something they are doing, or any positive response, they feel better, they in turn do more for us. And yes, it's not always what we want, but don't we really want someone to "care" for us.


sarah,
I think you've answered your own question....simply smile, say thank you and show appreciation for any of the little things he may still be doing...even if only to say thanks for watching the kids. that's not persuit it's kindness!!
LL