Sarah, just try to remember the way you were when you and H first met and fell in love. I decided I needed to become the 22 year old girl again that my H fell in love with. Men marry hoping their wives never change. I know what you mean about the ridiculous questions, etc., you can go along just fine for awhile and then it seems we just backslide and it all gets to us. We're human for crying out loud. My H is pretty good about dealing with my backslides. They are fewer and fewer. I'm trying to let the small stuff go, most of it is small stuff anyway. Flirting is good, laughing together too, make some new positive memories. Date again. Hold hands. Best of luck to you and your H. Lisa
