Lisa, Just wanted to thank you for stopping by my thread, and that I did read your previous thread about the bomb dropping. Gives me some hope. What about the line, you give one heart, you get back two? Anyway, difficult to balance the "no pursuit"/"show them love" tightrope walk.
H is very distraught now. It's probably better we're apart during this time. When he had decided to go to therapy, I was very hopeful, but I don't know if it's too helpful to him.
As for you, Keep doing what works! Thanks again Sarah
