are you going out of your way to show your almost WAS's the love you feel? I recently read something by Ed Wheat and it was 9 words that I found so profound. They are "One heart burning with love sets another on fire". My goal since feb when my H dropped his bomb and more recently when he decided to give us another chance has been to show him the love that I used to withhold from him. Oh how I wasted so many years. He is responding to it too. Go out of your way to be the spouse you wish you would have been! Lisa