Again, be careful with others getting involved...if this friend who talked to husband did so on her own you can't prevent that...but when these same friends want to come report to you what they said....or even if H wants to tell what they said you need to STOP...say, I really don't care to discuss this...it is personal to me....or personal to you (H)....I have removed myself from this drama...
I would also stay far away from conversations about Mrs. S...OW....any comments like
"I am sure a lot of 'truths' could be found with her"
While he didn't say anything about it now...this could come back to bite you later...
Remember the less people you talk to or that talk to you the less likely anything will come back on you....and that IS WHAT YOU WANT....no more drama...no more "he said/she said/ow said/friend said.....see?
Glad to hear the night was good overall and that eventually the bread got done....
