I found out last night that OM has now gotten married ... not much more than a month after he and my W were "back together". I honestly feel pity for the screwed-up kid. What an idiot.
Predictably, W went through another round of the "how could I have been so stupid" game, but it wasn't that bad. What was bad was when it got into an R talk and she basically told me that she thought I was a coward for not confronting OM and beating him up or something. I was naturally offended, and I told her the truth: I wanted to smash OM's face in, but I didn't want a felony assault conviction, and I also didn't want to elicit sympathy from her for her sweet, "sensitive" OM. She called me this morning and apologized, saying that she knows that I was acting based on what I thought was God's will for my life.
I just got another call from her. She said that she just felt a huge wave of joy pass over her for not being with OM anymore.